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Guides to go out safely
Practical advice for your dates, trips and solo outings.
A first date with someone you have never met: preparing without spoiling the evening
You have swapped a few messages and they seem lovely. What is left is that slightly dizzying moment when the screen becomes a real person, tonight, for real.
Read the guide →DatingKeeping someone in the loop without spending the night on your phone
The "I got here safely" text always gets sent. The "I am heading off" one, much less. And that is exactly the message that goes missing when it matters.
Read the guide →Going out soloWalking home alone at night: the habits that change everything
The way home is often the worst part of the evening. A few habits are enough to make it easier, without living in fear.
Read the guide →Going out soloRunning alone, early or late, without thinking about it
Running solo at dawn or after dark is a freedom. That is no reason to pay for it with worry, yours or the people who care about you.
Read the guide →Everyday safetyStreet harassment: what to do in the moment
It happens fast, it throws you, and afterwards you replay what you "should" have done. Here are some concrete bearings, with nothing you are obliged to do.
Read the guide →Everyday safetySharing your location is not being watched
The idea has a bad reputation, and it is easy to see why. The real question is not "can I be seen", but "by whom, when, and do I decide".
Read the guide →Partner venuesAsking for help at the bar without drawing attention
In some venues, one ordinary sentence at the counter is enough to bring help. SHARIXY takes that idea further, and makes it quieter still.
Read the guide →AdviceThat uneasy feeling you cannot quite explain
We are taught to be polite, not to "overreact", to find a rational reason for everything. Sometimes the body is right before the head is.
Read the guide →Getting startedGetting started with SHARIXY
You do not need to explore everything to be protected. Three settings, done once, are enough to be covered from your very first outing.
Read the guide →Getting startedChoosing your trusted contacts well
The best contact is not necessarily the one closest to your heart. It is the one who picks up, who keeps a cool head, and who can actually do something.
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